Your Fitness Journey Doesn't Belong to a Gym. It Belongs to You.
One thing I've never understood about the fitness industry is the idea that choosing a gym means you're supposed to pledge your loyalty to that building forever. You join a gym, start taking classes, build relationships with people there, and hopefully find coaches who help you improve. That's great, but somewhere along the way, fitness can sometimes become strangely territorial.
People can start feeling like they're betraying their gym if they take a class somewhere else, work with another coach, or simply want to try something different. I don't believe fitness should work that way, and it's definitely not the kind of environment I want to create at Warrior.
At Warrior, I obviously want people to enjoy being here. I want us to provide great coaching, great classes, a welcoming environment, and enough variety that people want to keep coming back. But I never want someone staying here because they feel guilty about going somewhere else.
Your fitness journey belongs to you. Not to me, not to one coach, and not to Warrior. You should be able to decide what works best for you.
You Should Never Feel Guilty for Trying Something Different
Maybe you love strength training at Warrior, but there's a yoga class somewhere else that you really enjoy. Go take it. Maybe your friend invites you to another gym for a workout, you're traveling and find a cool gym you want to visit, or there's a completely different type of exercise you've always wanted to try. I think those are all good things.
Maybe another coach specializes in something that would help you accomplish a particular goal. I don't think my response should be to become offended that you want to learn from someone else. There are a lot of great coaches, instructors, gyms, studios, and different styles of training out there, and I don't believe anyone benefits from pretending one person or one facility has every answer.
If you try something different and learn something new, that's a positive. Fitness should be about discovering what keeps you moving, what you enjoy, and what helps you reach your goals.
Our Coaches Aren't Expected to Live Inside Warrior Either
This philosophy doesn't only apply to our members. It applies to our coaches too. Our coaches are free to train at other gyms, learn from other coaches, take other classes, attend seminars, try different styles of training, and continue expanding their knowledge.
I've trained with other coaches myself, and I think that's a good thing. If someone on our team experiences a different coaching style or training method somewhere else and comes back with a new idea, why would I be threatened by that? That's an opportunity for all of us to become better.
I don't want to build a team of people who only know how I do things. I want coaches who continue learning, asking questions, experiencing different approaches, and developing their own strengths. A good team doesn't require everyone to be exactly the same.
That's Why Warrior Has Different Coaches
We've intentionally built Warrior around having different personalities, coaching styles, backgrounds, and strengths. Someone might absolutely love one coach's class while another person connects better with somebody else. One member might love strength training while another prefers circuits, cardio, mobility, or something entirely different.
That's okay, and in fact, that's the point. Having different coaches gives our members options and gives them opportunities to experience different ways of training without feeling like there's only one person or one approach they have to follow.
I don't expect every person who walks through our doors to connect with me the most. If one of our coaches builds a class that becomes packed because people love what they're doing, I'm not going to be upset that their class is bigger than mine. I'm going to be excited that people are showing up and that one of our coaches is succeeding.
Their success doesn't take something away from me. It makes our entire team better, and ultimately it gives our members a better experience.
Good Coaching Should Create Independence, Not Dependence
I think this goes deeper than where somebody chooses to exercise. As a coach, my job shouldn't be to convince you that you can't succeed without me. If I've done my job well, you should gradually become more confident and knowledgeable about your own body.
You should understand exercises better, become more comfortable walking into a gym, and learn what works for you. You should discover what you enjoy, what your body responds well to, and how to continue taking care of yourself even when a coach isn't standing beside you.
I want you to value coaching because it helps you, not because you've been convinced that you'll fail without it. There's a big difference between building a community people want to belong to and creating an environment people feel like they're not allowed to leave.
At Warrior, I will always choose the first one.
Fitness Isn't a Competition Between Gyms
We live in a relatively small community. There are different gyms, studios, instructors, personal trainers, physical therapists, running groups, yoga instructors, and other health and wellness professionals throughout our area. We're not all going to do things exactly the same way, and we're not supposed to.
Someone might love Warrior. Someone else might find another facility that's a better fit. Someone might belong to Warrior while occasionally training somewhere else, while another person might have memberships at two different places because each provides something different.
If somebody finds a way to become more active, stronger, healthier, and happier, I have a hard time seeing that as a bad thing. There are enough people who aren't exercising at all, so I'd rather spend my energy helping more people become active than worrying about which building they're doing it in.
You Don't Owe a Gym Exclusivity
When you become part of Warrior, I hope you feel connected to this place. I hope you make friends here, build relationships with our coaches, find classes you love, become stronger, and feel like you're part of our community.
But being part of a community shouldn't require giving up your freedom to explore. You don't need my permission to take another class, and you don't need to hide the fact that you worked out somewhere else.
That's not the relationship I want with our members. If you try another gym and love something they do, tell me about it. If you learn a cool exercise somewhere else, show me. If you find another coach who helps you accomplish something, I'll be happy for you.
When you come back through Warrior's doors, we'll be happy to see you. Where else you worked out that week isn't going to change that.
I Want Warrior to Earn Your Business
There's an important difference between keeping members and earning members. I don't want to keep somebody because they feel pressured, guilty, obligated, or afraid to try somewhere else. I want to earn their decision to continue training here by providing an experience they value.
That means we have to keep improving. Our coaches need to keep learning, our classes need to provide value, and our facility needs to be welcoming. We need to listen when members give us feedback, and we need to be willing to change when something could be better.
If the only way I can keep someone at Warrior is by convincing them everywhere else is bad, then I haven't done a very good job building Warrior. I'd rather build something good enough that you're completely free to explore and still choose to come back.
That's the kind of loyalty that actually means something to me.
There's Room for Everyone
Fitness doesn't need more territorial behavior. It needs more people moving their bodies, lifting weights, improving their cardiovascular health, building confidence, taking care of themselves, and finding communities that make those things enjoyable.
Train at Warrior. Take a yoga class somewhere else. Lift with your friend at another gym. Work with another coach. Go hiking, ski, run, bike, or try something you've never done before. Find the combination of things that keeps you active and makes you excited to take care of yourself.
If Warrior gets to be part of that journey, we're grateful for it. We don't need to own your fitness journey to help you with it. Your health, your goals, and where you choose to pursue them should ultimately be your choice.
Wherever you choose to train, the most important thing is that you continue showing up for yourself, taking care of your health, and finding what works for you.